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20 years ago 0 3368 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
I don't know if I would describe myself as more calm now or not, but I definitely feel like I am thinking more clear. Maybe it is the increased amount of oxygen to our brains that has us feeling this way! LOL :)

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20 years ago 0 334 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi Nascar, I can relate to how you are feeling. I find I'm way more peaceful and pleasent to be around since I quit. I like you I have way more patients for my children (especially my 3 year old). For me I think its because I'm not constantly anxious about when I can go for my next smoke. I was a bad mom a lot of the time, and I will admit it. I would put my need to smoke over the needs of my kids sometimes. I would rather go outside and have a smoke then play cars!! It was selfish, but hey I was an addict. Now I have all the time in the world and a clean house too. I feel peaceful like I said and so much happier. And yeah, my kids are happier too. Cheers, Skidoo [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 5/1/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 17 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 212 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $93.5 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 1 [B]Hrs:[/B] 13 [B]Mins:[/B] 25 [B]Seconds:[/B] 39
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20 years ago 0 1070 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
That I handle things better now? I am on day 4 and I have been really calm. Like more so than when I was smoking. It's almost like my rational side is emerging?!?! I find myself being more patient with my son and hubby. My house has never been this clean, btw! Anyhow has anyone else found this to be true? Could it be that I am a different person now that I quit? I will say that it does take my inner voice to calm me every once in a while but for the most part, I just get over it, kwim? I just think it's strange and I am hoping that this is just the new me and not some facade that is going on! If this is real, I am so ready for it!!! Thanks for your support! [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 5/15/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 3 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 73 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $13.5 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 0 [B]Hrs:[/B] 6 [B]Mins:[/B] 12 [B]Seconds:[/B] 16
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20 years ago 0 1070 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
I agree Casey! That is my fear! I hope it stays this way but rest assured that my guard IS up! Thanks [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 5/15/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 3 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 73 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $13.5 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 0 [B]Hrs:[/B] 6 [B]Mins:[/B] 13 [B]Seconds:[/B] 5
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20 years ago 0 1070 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
I thank you for sharing your stories with me skidoo & 4my2girls! It is good to know that this feeling may be real and not just some early stage quit allusion! I never left my post before this either 2girls, that is one of the most bothersome things that I did. Ignored my child because I couldn't handle the thought of not smoking that long. I mean come on, that is just sad. I am happy that I see this now and can hold on to it, tight! Thank you all for your responses. I understand that I will go through some hard times, which I have already, but I know I can overcome any craving. My son means so much to me and the thought of letting myself & him down breaks my heart!! [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 5/15/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 4 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 88 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $18 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 0 [B]Hrs:[/B] 7 [B]Mins:[/B] 31 [B]Seconds:[/B] 28
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20 years ago 0 1262 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Dear NascarFan That is awesome that you are calmer. Everyone is different. I was not calmer until lately. Remember what Casey said.....don't let your guard down...the demon will take advantage! Stay Strong! Karen [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 1/30/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 108 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 1,629 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $324 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 11 [B]Hrs:[/B] 20 [B]Mins:[/B] 30 [B]Seconds:[/B] 20
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20 years ago 0 852 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi there! I totally know what you are talking about!! That is me that you described! I am definately more calmer and have more patience with my girls now, than when I smoked! Just as skidoo said -- except I still beat myself up for being such a bad mom. It sounds so horrible to actually admit that I always put my needs and my addiction ahead of my childrens lives. I won't go into details, but lets just say I was a true addict. I never left my post. Anyhow, yes, I think this is a new you! Enjoy it! I love the new me, I still have my ups and downs, and my happys and sads, but I feel so peaceful most of the time. I love it. Enjoy yourself! Take care, and congratulations on your 4th day!!! ;) 4my2girls [b][color=Maroon]What Consumes Your Thoughts Controls Your Life [/b][/color] [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 3/5/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 75 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 2,250 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $245.25 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 6 [B]Hrs:[/B] 0 [B]Mins:[/B] 52 [B]Seconds:[/B] 17
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20 years ago 0 962 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Dear Nascar Fan (or should a say a Kasey fan??? He is so cute) It's an amazing journey that you have started. You are already such an encourager on this site! I've been seeing you posting around - good for you!!! You are seeing a new you. Aren't you a wonderful, strong woman? Don't you love who you are becoming?? A sweet smelling mommy!! As Sunshine said - enjoy your path - but keep your guard up! Have a plan in place for when those cravings come down on you! Here's to day 5! Island Girl [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 2/21/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 86 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 870 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $172 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 10 [B]Hrs:[/B] 3 [B]Mins:[/B] 39 [B]Seconds:[/B] 47

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NascarFan, All I can say enjoy the journey, but keep your guard up... I am proud of all of you... Be blessed, SUNSHINE [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 1/7/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 131 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 2,243 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $458.5 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 18 [B]Hrs:[/B] 23 [B]Mins:[/B] 36 [B]Seconds:[/B] 45

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20 years ago 0 663 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
everyone's quit is individual and different. I'm very happy for you that you are experiencing early these positive benefits. I'll leave it to the experts to perhaps explain better the chemical balances and whatnot that are reestablishing themselves within you which may give a more scientific explanation to your experiences. What I can say is that 'calm' is definitely a side effect resulting from not smoking - from the freedom of smoking - from regaining the reigns. Document this discovery for future reference. It may come in handy. Enjoy your new (non-addicted) self. keep fightin' the good fight - fish [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 12/21/2005 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 148 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 4,460 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $740 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 19 [B]Hrs:[/B] 5 [B]Mins:[/B] 21 [B]Seconds:[/B] 41

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